Lifestyle Change

23rd June
2010
written by Griff Neilson

Written by Ryan Flint, NSCA-CPT, Sports Nutritionist

I’ve read about this very interesting Harvard University study about exercise multiple times in the past, but I was just recently reminded about this study again while reading the fascinating book called 59 Seconds by Richard Wiseman.

Pay attention, because this actually shows a pretty powerful trick that you can use to literally make ANY workout or exercise program a LOT more effective and results producing.

According to the book 59 Seconds, here’s how this study was carried out:

Researchers at Harvard University studied over 80 hotel room cleaning attendants from 7 different hotels.  The hotel room attendants naturally received a lot of exercise from their daily jobs, which included cleaning an average of 15 rooms per day at about 25 minutes per room.  This work involves a good deal of exercise in carrying things, scrubbing, lifting objects, vacuuming, and so on.

The researchers knew the hotel maids led an active lifestyle from their work, but also questioned whether most of the maids may not realize that their work was actually good for their health.  The researchers set out to study the effects on the hotel attendants of making them very aware of how beneficial the exercise they got while working was for their health, and to see if this increased the results that they actually received from the exercise.

Basically, the question was… Would telling them that their work was great exercise improve their health, lower their blood pressure, and help them to lose weight compared to the hotel attendants that didn’t realize their work was in fact “exercise”?

The hotel attendants were split into 2 groups:

1. This group was informed about the benefits of exercise and told how many calories they were burning while doing their hotel cleaning work each day. They were specifically told how many calories activities such as changing sheets, vacuuming, and scrubbing bathrooms were burning each hour.

The researchers also wanted this information to stick in their heads daily, so they gave the attendants a handout showing the quantities of calories they were burning doing each activity of their jobs.  They were also shown a poster daily that reinforced how many calories they were burning.

2.  The control group of hotel cleaning attendants was simply informed of the benefits of exercise, but we’re NOT told how many calories they were burning doing their work, and also were NOT told that their work actually constituted a good form of exercise.

The researchers studied the existing lifestyles of all of the participants in both groups as well as giving them various health tests, including weigh-ins.

The study was conducted for 4 weeks.  The researchers made sure that none of the participants had actually changed their exercise habits, smoking, or eating habits outside of work.  This assured that there was no external lifestyle factor that could have accounted for the results of the study.

In addition, the hotel managers assured that the workloads of both groups stayed the same throughout the entire experiment.

Here are the VERY interesting results:

It turned out that the group of hotel cleaning attendants that was informed daily about the calorie-burning effects of their normal work routines ended up losing a significant amount of weight, lowered their body mass index and waist-to-hip ratio, and decreased their blood pressure.

The control group of hotel attendants that was not told about the calories they burned while doing their work showed NONE of these improvements.

Wow… very interesting huh! 

Remember that each of these groups received the SAME amount of exercise and did not alter their lifestyle, eating habits, drinking habits, smoking, or anything else.  The only thing that was different between the 2 groups was simply that the one group was constantly being reminded of how beneficial the exercise during their work was for their health and how many calories they were burning, and therefore their minds were busy believing in the benefits of it.

This actually doesn’t surprise me… this is classic placebo effect at work here, and reinforces how powerful our brains are in relation to the results we get from exercise, food, supplements, etc.

How to use this info to burn more fat in your workouts, build more lean muscle, and improve your health more from exercise and nutrition

There’s a good lesson in this study.  If you strongly believe in your mind that the workouts that you are doing are drastically improving your body, your results will increase dramatically from those workouts. 

The trick I’ve used over the years is to really “get mental” during your workouts and believe strongly that the exercise you are doing is transforming your body into a lean chiseled machine.  So, if you want to burn more fat, not only do you need to work out intensely (for your individual capabilities), but you also need to mentally visualize the results you’re getting, the body fat you are burning, and really strongly believe in how powerful the workout routine that you are doing really is for your body.

Along the same lines, if your goal is to build more muscle, then you really need to strongly believe in your mind at how powerfully your workouts are helping you to build muscle.

And this can be applied to your food intake too!

Don’t underestimate how powerful your mind really is… If you are eating healthy foods such as those detailed in our client binders and nutritional guide, make sure that you are also actively thinking in your mind about how those foods are dramatically helping your body, making you stronger, making you leaner, improving your energy and health, and so on.

Don’t ignore this… this will drastically improve your results if you actively think about how truly healthy the foods you are eating every day are and how they are changing your body.  This is assuming that you actually are eating truly healthy foods every day.

Another benefit of this “mental programming” is that it trains you to actually want to avoid junk foods, because you want to be able to think about how everything you eat is improving your body instead.

So there you go… an interesting study that shows how you can legitimately increase your results from your exercise and nutrition by just actively thinking about the benefits of both every day!

11th June
2010
written by Griff Neilson

Wow!  It is already Summer 2010 and man are we feeling it!  I don’t think too many of us object to the warmer weather!  Summer is a time that reminds us that life is to be lived ACTIVELY!  During the winter it is much easier to get into an “office” or “house” routine that limits our physical activity.  Unfortunately some of us get into “vacation” mode during the summer with is great…but it sometimes transcends into our fitness and nutritional way of life as well.  “I will start back on my routine when school starts” is a common theme I have heard countless times.  I must be honest, when I say this is frustrating to say the least.  In keeping with our mission to help change your lifestyle I want to devote this blog to that purpose.

 Step #1:  Re-Focus your Lens

 Most of us view fitness and nutrition as a vehicle to deliver us to a short term destination.  What I mean by this is, “I have a Lake Powell trip coming up in two months”, or my personal favorite, “I have a class reunion coming up in three months and I need to drop 40 lbs.”  It’s as though we are only concerned about our health for a specific period of time and for superficial reasons.  The perspective that is essential to have is that of a long term lifestyle change.  You have to start to think in terms of permanency.  Try this today.  Think of what you want to achieve and then imagine maintaining that for the rest of your life…that is exactly what you are going to do.  No more diets, no more funky workout programs that only last for a predetermined amount of time, just a lifestyle where working out is the norms and healthy eating

 Step #2: Adjust your attitude

 There are many activities in our lives that we do not initially enjoy but learn to love later.  Entering into a healthy lifestyle is very similar.  At first you will find the changes hard and challenging but eventually your daily activities will become habit and you will find yourself enjoying your newfound lifestyle.  It helps to look upon your new life as rewarding and enjoyable rather than daunting and repressing.  Attitude goes further than most people realize and this step should not be overlooked.

 Step #3:  Give your new lifestyle a chance (Be consistent and persistent)

 I have seen countless people get very excited and motivated to start an exercise program but then fizzle out later when the going gets tough.  “I get too sore”, “I don’t have the time”, “I don’t know what I am doing” are some of the common excuses employed preceeding the drop-out of that persons exercise and nutritional routine.  The problem stems from the fact that we need a little will power to change our lifestyle but our current “convienant based lifestyle” mentality kicks in to sabatoge our efforts.  Do not ever give up!  Yes it will be a little hard but worth it!  The only way to change your lifestyle is to give it an adequate chance to change…something very few of us ever achieve.

 Step#4:  Schedule your workouts and meals

 This is where you design your battle plan.  Take a few moments at the start of every week and schedule your meals and your workouts.  This is where you are making your lifestyle a priority.  This is a very important step because it forces you to make time for yourself a priority.  The #1 reason that people fail at fitness is because of “lack of time”.  In my opionion this is an absolute load of nonsense because we ALL have the time it is the act of making the time.  This step is worth the 15-20 minutes invested into it.

 Step #5: Stop being LAZY!

 Yes you heard me right!  Laziness has become an American Pastime as it relates to healthy nutrition and fitness.  If you don’t believe me checkout the latest statistics concerning obesity in America.  This means getting our butts off the couch on a consistent basis and following through with your plans.  If you find yourself offended by this suggestion then please refer to step #2 again and apply it again.

 Step #6: Form a new habit!

 Your habits are a sub-conscience function.  Think about it…do you think of your daily routines?  Do you think about whether to take a shower or brush your teeth?  I hope you are answering no at this point J.  My point here is that you need to be so habitual about exercise and nutrition that it becomes second nature to you on a sub-conscience level.  It is at this point that you will not have to worry about regression or relapse.  The only way to get there is to continue on your healthy lifestyle path day after day, month after month, year after year.

 Step #7:  Maintain your lifestyle and ENJOY it!

 Unfortunately those who have truly obtained a Phase IV lifestyle (a good healthy lifestyle) are the minority in America now.  More than half of the American population is either overweight or obese.  I congratulate all of you that have successfully changed your lifestyle and urge you to enjoy it!  Hold your head high and be of good cheer because now all you have to do is maintain it.  I would also encourage you to spread the word!  Fitness is infectious and you will find yourself influencing many people to change their lives for the better.

 Well there you have it my friends.  I realize that many of you are at different steps in your lives and I would encourage you to apply these principles as appropriate. I would encourage you to always remember one thing…life is good!

26th May
2010
written by Griff Neilson

Last week we went over the first 5 steps in becoming excuse free in your pursuit of Lifestyle Change.  This week we continue.  If you haven’t read the first installment, I would encourage you to do so as a good preface to what you will read here.

 Step #6:  Remember it is NOT as hard as everybody tells you!

We have been cultured since our youth to believe that “change is hard”.  I would like to challenge this conventional (false) wisdom.  I want to present this to you by first having you sit down in a quiet place and have you visualize EXACTELY what your ideal lifestyle looks like.  Be very specific.  How do you feel?  What do you look like, what is your energy level like, ECT?  Now I want you to shift back into your current state and examine the exact same things.  Now contrast the two lifestyles and you tell me which one is harder to live?

The point is that we think about how hard it is to change…and yes change can be hard but it is NOT any harder than the grief our present lifestyle presents to us on a daily basis.  Obesity, low energy from lack of exercise, poor nutrition and a host of other personal habits MAKES OUR LIVES HARDER THAN IT NEEDS TO BE!  So to rectify this I propose that you take a big breath, be confident and bold as you change your habits

Step #7:  ACTION

We all know that sitting around and thinking about our goals, our plan of action and roadmap will do nothing to promote lifestyle change.  You must get off your butt and start moving as planned.  Remember your plan of attack was step # 4 from last week, now it is time to actually execute it.  You may be uncomfortable or not confident in doing it as first, but don’t fear…that will change.  Your self confidence will grow and you start to see the small changes in your life. 

Step #8: Never Blame Anything or Anyone…EVER AGAIN!

This is one of the most crucial steps you can implement.  You may be saying to yourself “well, I don’t blame anybody or anything”.  While that may be true, chances are that you use the “blame game” more than you think.  Blaming others is an indication of your maturity level.  The more you blame, then less proactive you are in changing your own life and you surrender your own ability to make choices.  Your character is dinged every time you blame.  When blaming starts, you essentially surrender your God-given ability to make choices for yourself and not be acted upon by others.  Nobody can ever take away your agency.  So if you find yourself constantly making excuses for your failures or blaming others for them, it is time for a fresh start.  You ARE in control and have the ability to make wise independent choices for yourself.

 Step #9: Positivity Activity

This can be a life changing activity if you let it be.  I want you to take the next 30 days and write down every negative comment that comes out of your mouth.  On the opposite side of you paper I want you to write just the opposite…I want it to the positive opposite.  You will be amazed at how addicted you are to negativity and pessimism.   Remember to succeed long-term you must have a positive mindset.

 Step #10: Recondition your Subconscious Mind!

This single step will take me a whole blog, so that is exactly what I will do.  Next week I will write on this subject in an easy to understand format.  Suffice it to say right now, if you can apply these first 9 steps you will already start the process of re-programming your subconscious mind.

Well there you have it my friends!  I am excited to have you try these steps.  They are rooted in timeless principles that if applied can change your life.  This is my sincere hope. Until next time remember that…

Life is good!

20th May
2010
written by Griff Neilson

If you have been at Lifelong Fitness for more than a month, I can almost guarantee you that you have heard the phrase, “nutrition is eighty percent of your success”.  The good news is that that statement is 100% true.  The bad news is also that this statement is 100% true.  As you may well be aware, nutrition is the hardest part of any lifestyle change and we are aware of this fact.  However it can also be a fun journey if you take the time to make it such.  I am writing this foreword with the intent of clarifying what characteristics will be necessary for you to succeed.  I am excited for your success and look forward to hearing about your lifelong change.

#1:  Start from the END

 This principle is so important it is at number #1 for a reason.  I want you envision EXACTELY what kind of nutritional lifestyle you want to live.  Be very specific.  I want you to then write it down.  You can even get descriptive pictures to go along with it if possible because it will help you visualize your end destination.  The net effect of this exercise is this: you are painting a very vivid picture in your mind of what you want to achieve and allowing your subconscious brain to take note of this.  Once this happens, your subconscious brain will help you in your thought patterns and help you stay within a positive state of mind.  Please do not take this lightly as it has the power to change your habits.

#2:  Recognize that Lifestyle Change takes hard work and consistency

The bottom line is that there are no shortcuts.  What we are promoting here at Lifelong Fitness is lifestyle change, and lifestyle change can be a daunting task for some.  My advice is to meet your challenges face to face and never back down.  For example if you have been accustomed to eating just the way you like with little to no discipline, you will find it hard in becoming more regimented and healthy.  Please know that this is something that you should accept and embrace from day 1.  Your trainer is here to help you with any and all of your challenges, but at the end of the day it is YOUR responsibility to eat well and be healthy.   You should take solace in the fact that it does get easier.  As with any habit, it might be hard at first, but after a while it will become second nature to you.

#3:  Stay Positive

Many clients begin their sessions with me with a chip on their shoulder and a preconceived notion of “how hard this is going to be”.  My advice is to remember step #1 and stay positive no matter what.  If you are a pessimist you will find this challenging.  If you are sneering right now, I guarantee this will be a challenge!  J Here is an exercise that I want you to do for the next 3 weeks for your new lifestyle change.

A) Take note of every time you say something negative about your fitness or nutrition.  I would invite you to take this one step further and do it in general.  When I say take note, I really mean it…take physical notes.  You will be amazed at how many negative and pessimistic things come out of your mouth.  This is important because it will help start the process of changing your vocabulary.  Your vocabulary is extremely important because it influences your subconscious mind and your subconscious mind is responsible for changing your habits.

B) Every time you slip and make a negative comment, do just the opposite and write down a positive comment.  Sounds cheesy I know, but please do it…you will thank me later.

#4: Enlist the support of your family and/or peers

The more support you can garner the better…trust me!  I have seen people fail because a spouse is not on board with support.  I have seen other fail because their friends are constantly ridiculing them (albeit in a friendly manner) about their new lifestyle.  Avoid this sabotage by informing your friends and family about your new lifestyle change.

#5 Drop the EXCUSES!

I want you to go and buy a book right now.  It is entitled Excuses Begone, by Wayne W. Dyer.  This book will change your life and aid you in your quest to change your nutritional lifestyle.  Excuses are nothing more than an option out of the lifestyle you would like to have.  Time is always going to be short.  Your kids will always be demanding.  Your teenage son will always test your patience and increase your desire for comfort foods.  This is where steps 1 & 2 come in real handy.  I am going to be very bold in this next sentence so please bear with me.  If you are here to lose weight, get in better shape, learn how to eat better, or any other reason…you are here to learn how to STOP MAKING EXCUSES!  For they are what got you to where you are in the first place!  I would encourage you with every ounce of sincerity that I possess to take inventory of your excuses and then do away with them.  This may take some prioritizing and schedule re-arranging, but there is always a way to accomplish what you want.

#6 Keep it fun!

I can hear the sighs right now!  Yes, it can be fun!  A few of the key ways to keep it fun are as follows:

A)  Be Creative.  Switch up your nutrition often.

B) Be proactive.  Get on to the internet and get some healthy recipes.  Go to the book store and get a clean recipe book.  Join a healthy eating club.  Ask your trainer for recipes and have them write you a menu

C) Involve other people.  Enlist as many people in your cause as possible!  This will serve to give you much support and it provides valuable synergy in your mission.

#7 Be Consistent!

If you can never be consistent your will never succeed in the long term period.  I have seen many a client fail because they let their excuses get in the way.  Consistency is never obtained and results fly out the window.   Inconsistency as it pertains to nutrition is actually harder on your body, so make the decision now to be consistent.  If you fall down pick yourself up and do better the next time.  Consistency is a learned habit so take it one day at a time.

#8 Drop the “All-or-Nothing-Syndrome”

Here is a little dose of reality.  Just because you ate 2 cookies in the morning that added up to 300 calories does not justify and additional 5000 calories of junk food in the name of “well, I messed up so I might as well eat crappy for the rest of the day”.  Laughing aside I have heard this countless times and it is an absolute death-nail to progress.  Please do not fall for this load of nonsense.

#9 Know that we support you!

We are here to ensure your lifelong change, so please use us a resource!  I think you will find that we want your success more than your want your success until you catch the vision of lifestyle change.  You will only understand that last sentence after you have fully changed your lifestyle and we are here to help you along with that mission.

6th May
2010
written by Griff Neilson

One thing has always amazed me with the pushers of fad diets.  They all claim to have found a break-through, a real-deal quick fix, or my personal favorite…the ONLY way to lose weight quickly!  If all of these claims are true then we must be idiots to believe them.  That would mean that we would have to blindly accept the facts of any given fad diet and completely disregard all of the sound principles of nutrition science that have been handed to us long ago before any of these non-sense diets ever came into existence.

As you know, I am an avid advocate of long term lifestyle change because I believe that it is the only way to accomplish long-term success.  Don’t believe me?  Well I am excited to share with you some statistics that may change your mind.  My hope in doing so is that you might start to look at these fad diets in a different light than you have in the past.

Definition of Fad Diet:

This is somewhat of a subjective term, but this is an accurate definition.  Fad Diets are aimed at rapid weight loss and disregard where the weight comes from (i.e., muscle, water, fat).  Fad Diets usually have a time line associated with them and are highly restrictive in nature.  They usually focus on the inclusion or exclusion of macronutrients (CHO/Pro/Fat).  Fad Diets are usually hypo-caloric (low calorie) and focus on certain foods that they deem “good” or “bad”.

 

Statistical Facts:

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)  estimate that at any given time two-thirds of all American adults are on a diet to either lose weight or prevent weight gain. Of those, 29 percent are men and 44 percent women. Yet only 5 percent of these dieters will be successful at keeping the weight that they lost off.

Guess what that means my friends?  That means that a whopping 95% of fad diets fail in the long run!  That is hardly a formula for success!  Even more discouraging is the fact that the human body thoroughly despises gaining and losing weight in a cyclical fashion!  The body prefers to be in a state of balance or homeostasis, and yo-yo dieting has been proven to pull the body squarely out of that balanced state.  The result is a fluctuation of hormonal levels, cholesterol levels, vitamin and mineral balances and so forth.
A staggering 66% of Americans are either overweight or obese…this is after all of the diets having been tried and failed!  I have a simple question for all of us Americans.  When will we learn that weight loss and lifestyle change is NOT found in a pill, surgery, funky and faddish diets, or fat-burning shots? 

A wise man once said, “Anything worth having will require a significant sacrifice of time, hard work, and determination”.  I could not agree more my friends.  You may be asking yourself, “Well how do I know how to spot the fad diets”.  I personally think that common sense will take you a long way in this arena, but in the following will give you some valuable tips that you can use.

Putting your “Diets” under the “Diet Microscope”

1- Does the diet promote rapid weight loss? 

Remember that the American College of Sports Medicine advocates weight loss of 1-2 lbs per week.  The fact that we think this is “too slow” is an indication of our lack of understanding of true and healthy weight loss.

2-Does it exclude one macro-nutrient or promotes the excessive consumption of another?  

In other words, if your diet is telling you to only consume protein and fat then the red flag should be raised.  Remember that the body prefers a balance of carbs, protein, and fat.  A healthy ratio is around 50% carbohydrate, 30% protein, and 20% fat.

3- Does the diet eliminate food groups?

The grapefruit diet is a perfect example of this, only advocating the consumption of grapefruit and other select foods.  Remember that this is no hand and conclusive scientific data to back up any of these silly diets.

4-Are they “lifestyle sustainable”?

If you can’t imagine doing your “diet” for the rest of your life, then run for the hills!  Remember that the ultimate goal of any nutritional regimen should be long-term and enjoyable.  Healthy eating can accomplish weight loss, weight maintenance and healthy weight gain if you are creative and proactive in your approach.

5- Does it advertize weight loss without exercise?

Thank goodness this gimmick is fading a little, but it is still out there.  If you ever hear this rest assured that the diet being advertized is bogus.  The fact that they are advertizing this indicates that the product probably is taking weight loss from either muscle or water with only a minimum amount coming from fat…certainly a recipe for long-term disaster!

6- Does the diet restrict calories less than 1200 for women and 1500 for men?

Remember that muscle is an intricate part of the human metabolism…the more of it present on the human body, the more

7-Does the diet require additional supplements or sponsored company foods or pills?

Typically these companies will try to gain your trust and excitement through emotion-based advertizing.  They want to get as much $ squeezed out of you as possible and if that means selling you expensive (and most of the time worthless) supplements to give you a placebo effect then so be it!  Be vigilant and aware of these gimmicky-like techniques.

My Suggestions

My suggestion is simple.  Stay true to time tested healthy eating principles such as eating plenty of fruits and vegetables, and with the correct balance of carbs, protein, and fat.  Be consistent and you will eventually find yourself if a lifestyle sustaining habit that will serve you for the rest of your life.  I know that is simple, and there is more to it, but suffice it to say that if you learn the basics and stay true to them you will make it much further that you ever would with all if the non-sense that is out there.  Trying to re-invent the wheel with fad diets only serves to plunge that wheel deeper and deeper into an unhealthy and cumbersome lifestyle that will ultimately leave you fatter, more out of shape and more discouraged than you started. 

Be good to yourselves and remember that life is good!

27th April
2010
written by Griff Neilson

In my nearly 10 years of service in the health and fitness industry I have seen a common thread among those who fail at changing their lifestyle.  That thread I am referring to is that of excuse making!  We all have them and we all know deep down that they hinder our efforts to succeed in every way. 

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer in his book, Excuses Begone! states that excuses if used enough become a reality within our own minds even if they are not true.  He call’s these states of mind, “memes”, named after a branch of Psychology called Memetics.  Memes are nothing more than a certain perception, understanding, view, or paradigm that we hold in our mind that we treasure as truth.

Memes can be good or bad.  For example, in my own life I choose to entertain the meme that I am a “work-horse” and my actions follow through on a daily basis.  If kept in proper balance this meme serves me in a positive way.  On the other hand I have seen many people suffering with negative memes.  I will list a few of them below as they pertain to achieving and maintaining a healthy and fit lifestyle.

  • “I just don’t have time to workout”
  • “I am way too busy to get to the gym or go running today”
  • “I am too stressed to eat right”
  • “Eating clean is too time consuming”
  • “Eating healthy is expensive and time consuming”
  • “I don’t have the self-control to reach my fitness goals”
  • “I have failed in the past so why try now”
  • “That’s just the way I am”
  • “I can’t lose weight because of my genetics”
  • “My family does not support my efforts so I cannot succeed in my goals”
  • “It’s just my luck”

I could go on for four more pages of excuses and memes but I think you get the point.  I can hear many of you thinking right now…”well those aren’t necessarily excuses; those are merely realities to be dealt with.  Ok, I will not disagree entirely with that contention, BUT what I want to point out in the following recovery program is that ALL of the aforementioned excuses are memes…that is they do not have control over us, and they are not foregone conclusions.  I really boils down to what our priorities are and what we need to do to change them.  In this weeks blog I will share the first 5 and next week I will conclude.

 Step: #1  Recognize that an excuse in just that…an excuse! 

This sounds simple enough but it is the hardest step of them all.  It is hard to get past our ego’s that constantly stand on guard and try to defend our self made realities (excuses) as though we are merely helpless victims that have no say in what happens to us or our ability to change our lives for the better. 

Step #2Recognize that your excuses are barriers to changing your lifestyle.

Once we know that we are making excuses (step #1), we are then able to be proactive and realize that our excuses are actual barriers standing in the way of our health and fitness success.  This is a step of realization and reality check.  Please use this step as an opportunity to change your perceptions of your “false realities”.  Take each excuse in isolation and put it under an magnifying glass…ask yourself how this particular excuse has helped you succeed in the past and then be honest enough with yourself to recognize that it hasn’t.  This may sound cheesy, but I encourage you to give it an honest effort…you will find this to be extremely helpful in weeding out the excuses in your life.

Step #3Be the opposite!

Here is where I want you to be proactive.  I want you to literally write down every excuse that you can think of.  Write it on a piece of paper with a line down the middle.  In the first column write down your excuse, and then in the second column write down the exact opposite.  For example, if you use the common excuse of “I don’t have any time”, you would then write down the opposite of, “I am creative and capable enough to find time to workout”.  The real key here is to act on the opposite statements that you are writing down.  Your subconscious mind will only start to believe the opposite statements if and when you start to live that way.   Please do not skimp on this step…it is vital to your progress.

Step #4 Create a success road map.

Now that you have all your excuses written down and you are actively trying to do their direct opposite, you will now benefit by putting together a plan of attack.  A synonym for this might be goal setting. I suggest the following steps for your road map.

            -Step #1:  Begin from the end.  What do you ultimately want to accomplish?  Take a picture of somebody you would like to look like.  Keep in mind if you are over 50 and you pull out a picture of a 25 year-old bodybuilder you are setting yourself up for failure.  Please remember to stay realistic.

            -Step #2: Have a plan A and B and Possibly C.  This is where preparation is paramount.  Say for example fast food is a weakness of yours because you like the convenience.  To overcome this you would plan your healthy meals the night before OR you can plan to eat somewhere healthier instead of a fast food joint.  Prepare daily!  There truly is no substitute for this!  I promise you that you need to have back up plans for the tough times.

            -Step #3:  Plan around your weaknesses!  It makes no sense to plan for your strengths…that is why they are your strengths!  It is your weaknesses that impede you every time!  So when making your goals plan, your attack plan directly targeted at your weakness!   For example, let’s say that you are a mid-night snacker, and it is contributing to weight gain.  A sensible plan would be to make sure that you are prepared in the day time and that you are eating more healthy frequent meals so that you don’t feel famished by the night time.

Step 5: Switch Paradigms! 

Remember that your current mindset is filled with excuses that have kept you where you are at right now…in a stagnant state filled with no victories!  What I want you to do, is to start thinking differently.  Steps 1-3 will help you with this immensely!  Be positive rather than negative.  Be optimistic rather than pessimistic.  Be happy rather than depressed!  Sometimes we like to think of ourselves as helpless little victims that have no choice in the matter when in fact we have all the say in the world.  Even your mood is a decision you make.

I promise you that you have the ability to change your mind so that all of those tired, worn-out excuses do not make it into your mind!  It will take time, discipline and hard mental work but you must do it or you will fall victim to your current mindset that has gotten you nowhere so far.

Well there you have it my friends!  Next week I will delve into the next 5 steps that can effect positive changes in your life.  Until then stay positive and APPLY what you have learned today.  Remember that life truly is good.

In good health,

Griff

6th April
2010
written by Griff Neilson

 

Beginning in the 1960’s numerous surveys from the Federal Government have been issued to the general population about exercise.  One of the questions that have been asked from that decade forward is regarding why people DO NOT exercise.  The #1 reason each and every year from that time forward is time.  We just can’t seem to get enough time and to make it worse we seem to get more and more busy each and every year.  We can all agree that time is hard to come by but we can also agree that exercise is very important and should not be edged out in the name of being “busy”

I want to offer some simple suggestions that I have received from my clients over the last 10 years that has helped them overcome this barrier and get them to the point of permanent lifestyle change…where time is no longer a constant issue.

Suggestion #1:  Ask yourself the question (disclaimer…the following exercise may make you uncomfortable if you are new to this lifestyle but it will help Have I made my new fitness/nutrition program and absolute PRIORITY in my life?

This is where you need to sit in solitude and really search you soul…sounding cheesy?  This is an absolute necessity!  This is a time for you to dig deep within yourself and discover your readiness to make a lifelong change.  If you find that you are hesitant, doubtful, fearful, or indifferent to making this change then you need to stop and re-evaluate your priorities.  If you find that you are indeed able to make time to exercise on a daily basis then go for it and never look back.  The bottom line here is that you absolutely cannot start a new lifestyle while sitting on the fence.  If work/life is too busy and too important for this change then back off for a while and wait until you are in the doctor’s office dealing with Diabetes…you will then understand that this truly is a priority not just a luxury to be enjoyed at your convenience.

Suggestion #2:  Map out a Plan!

This is where 95% of Americans fail in there endeavor to exercise…they never schedule in a time to exercise.  I have two suggestions here.  Make a hard copy of your schedule and make a softer flexible one.  Many have a set schedule and others do not but we all have a general sense of what we are going to be doing from day to day.  On your hard copy write out what days and time during the week you will be working out and keep it on you at all times.  On the soft copy, which could be a planner, an I-Phone, or other electronic device, you can write out your week and schedule exercise in.  If you need to be flexible do it!  The key point here is to make sure that you are making a plan and sticking to it.  It is now more than a wish; it is plan of attack, your roadmap, your compass to get you where you need to be.

Suggestion #3:  Take an inventory of your EXCUSES and then throw them out the window!

This is a great exercise that is imperative to do before starting your program.  While still in the same solitude of soul searching I want you to physically write down ALL of the excuses that you have that stand in the way of you accomplishing your goals!  Each and every last one of them!  I don’t care if you think they are “valid” or not, write them all down.  I am not saying that you are not busy…please do not misunderstand.  What I am saying is that all of these excuses are just miss managed priorities.  Nobody is telling you to quit your job or abandon your family…quite the contrary.

Suggestion #4 Re-Prioritize!

Now I want you to write down your Daily schedule.  I understand that it may fluctuate…that is not the point.  I want you to FIND the time that will work best for you to exercise and make that your permanent time if possible.  If your schedule fluctuates you are going to have to make some omissions to make time for exercise.  Not possible you say?  NONSENSE!  I want you to be a grown up here and MAKE EXERCISE A PRIORITY!  Stop fooling yourself with every excuse that you find yourself making. Do you see what I am saying here?  All of those excuses may be important but if they are more important than exercise then what you are telling me exercise is not important and I cannot buy that one.  It is time to make a paradigm shift and make exercise a priority.  One last thought…do not skimp on writing this one down!  Physically writing it down into your planner will give you the psychological benefit of knowing that you are indeed making it a priority!  Write out your Dailey and weekly schedule with exercise included. Now I want you to RESPECT it!  I don’t care how busy you are, when it comes time for your exercise time it is time to put those important things aside temporarily and fulfill your obligation period…no excuses…just do it. 

Suggestion #5: Realize that you really DO have the time! 

In the governmental surveys mentioned earlier, it was concluded that time was the major barrier to exercise.  But subsequent studies have proven that NOT to be the case.  What the studies found is that people really have the time if they want it, but they don’t know how to manage their time and they also found that they do not know have to manage their emotions.  In other words millions of Americans come home from work each day and they feel tired…so they then opt not to exercise.  Another common situation is that we feel stressed so we opt for more leisure or comfortable activities to the expense of exercise.

Well there we have it my friends.  I apologize if I get a little too passionate about this topic, but I do know that there is ALWAYS time for fitness if we allow it.

26th March
2010
written by Griff Neilson

Hello all! 

Please let me clarify this title if you find yourself confused.  Two days ago I posted a posting labled “The absolute Must Nutritional Checklist”.  This particular blog was talking specifically about nutritional guidelines as it pertains to things that you should and should not eat.  This post is talking more about guidlines that will keep your nutrition clean and consistent…two very important points to  remember.  These guidelines are indirect but ironically just as important as the nutritional guidlines as they work hand in hand with one anot

1- Am I Consistent?

If you are good one day and then bad the next you will NEVER succeed in a lifestyle change.  It is absolutely critical that you are consistent in your efforts.  Please approach your new nutritional way of life as a permanent lifestyle change.  Also if you fall, please do not take the “all or nothing” approach and bomb.  Pick yourself up, and get going again.  Remember that you are trying to form habits that last a lifetime!

2-Do I use my Trainer as a Motivator and a Resource?

Remember that this is what we are here for!  If you have an issue that is preventing you from your goals PLEASE let us know so that we can help you.

 3- DO I Track My Food for my Trainer to Review?

If you answer no to this YOU WILL FAIL. Please let me repeat that one more time…YOU WILL FAIL!  This is especially important to those of you that have not achieved a lifestyle change and are still in phase 1-3.  You will be surprised at the difference of what you think you are eating, and what you are actually consuming.  This is also your greatest opportunity to learn, as your trainer will critique your every nutritional move.  To tough you say?  Well then do not be disappointed when you do NOT get the results you are looking for.  Log on to www.fitday.com for your tracking purposes.

4- Am I Prepared?

Life happens and there is a litany of excuses available to explain away our poor eating choices, but if you truly prepare your days, you will find success because you will not be tempted to make bad choices when good food is not available.  Pack cooler with good food Buy some good protein bars.  Pre-make some homemade meals for the week!  Whatever you do, be sure that you are prepared for when life happens.

5-Do I make Excuses?

NOTHING will kill your success faster than this single item.  Remember that excuses are nothing more than an option out of the lifestyle that you would like to live.  I have found that in nine years of doing this that those that make excuses fail and those that do not succeed.  Simple.  Stop your excuse making, and come up with solutions instead.  That is the only way to truly succeed in the long run.

24th March
2010
written by Griff Neilson

The following is a list that you can use as a nutritional checklist.  If you can answer yes to these questions you will find yourself on the fast track to success.  If you find yourself at a plateau, oftentimes you will find yourself negligent in one or more of these areas.  These principles are based on long term lifestyle change and I promise you that if you apply them and are able to answer “yes” to all of these on a CONSISTENT basis, you WILL succeed!  Best of Luck!

1- Am I within my calorie range on a daily basis?

This is extremely important.  Most people get frustrated because they fail to lose/gain/maintain weight even when they are making healthy choices.  The problem is that the body can get quite particular and even 300-500 calories in either direction can make all of the difference.  Log on to www .fitday.com to enter your calories and find out if you are indeed within your range.

2-Am I eating 5-6 SMALLER meals spaced out every 2-3 hours?

Remember that the reason behind this one is to activate your metabolism and supercharge it!  You can eat the same amount of calories but only in 3 square meals and you will NOT lose the weight that you would with 5-6 smaller meals spaced out every 2-3 hours.  Why?  Because your blood sugar levels stay much more steady when eating the smaller more frequent meals.  Never neglect this principle.

3-Are my Macronutrients (Carbs, Pro, Fat) in Balance?

Remember that the body prefers a balance of these sources.  You should be around 50% Carbohydrate, 30% Protein, and 20% Fat, unless otherwise directed by your trainer.  This pertains to each individual meal and to your total daily intake.

4-Am I Consuming Moderate to Low Glycemic Carbohydrates?

This is by far the most overlooked nutritional aspect that can have a huge impact.  Please refer to the book, The New Glucose Revolution, The Complete Authoritative Guide to the Glycemic Index for further insights and understanding on this topic.  It is essential to gain a complete and thorough understanding on this topic so that you can reap the benefits of eating moderate to low glycemic carbohydrates.

5- Am I consuming adequate Fruits and Vegetables on a Daily basis?

The body demands nutrients, fiber, antioxidants that are found in fruits and vegetables.  Don’t like veggies?  Get over it and get used to them because they are the life blood of good nutrition and you cannot consider yourself truly healthy until you are getting at least 3 servings (3-5) of veggies a day and 2 servings (2-4) of fruit.

6- Am I eating Breakfast?

This is an absolute must!  I know that many of you struggle with this one…if you do start small and work up to a moderate meal.  This sets your body’s metabolism into motion for the day and ensures that you keep your blood sugar levels in check.

7-Is my sugar/treat intake low?

Nobody is telling you that you can never have a treat, but if you do so earlier in the day and make sure that you keep your portion size small.  Your total daily sugar intake should never be more than 10% and lower is much better.  Sugar is a death nail when it comes to weight loss.

8-Is my fat intake low? 

Remember that you should never be over 20% in the fat category and of that 20%, no more than 10% (and much lower if possible) should come from saturated (animal) fat.

In my next post I will do a Non-Nutritional checklist that will work hand in hand with this one.

Life is good!

3rd March
2010
written by Griff Neilson

Late last month I posted the first addition to this posting.  I used a hypothetical scenario between a trainer and a beginning client.  You may have noticed that this particular client named “John” was super motivated to begin a new fitness program initially…and then the excuses started to pour in.  This is what I want to touch on today.

Have you ever been in John’s shoes?  Have you ever been super charged and motivated to change your lifestyle only to have your motivation supplanted by your busy schedule? Maybe you are in a high pressure situation at work?  Or maybe you have screaming children demanding your attention or the overwhelming temptation to rest and veg in front of the TV after a long days work?  Whatever your life may look like it is easy to edge exercise out in the name of being busy.  I contend that every time we use an excuse such as “I am too busy” to exercise we might as well say to everybody in the room that “exercise is not a PRIORITY to me yet”. 

Listed below is a checklist that you must be able to answer affirmatively to BEFORE you start your lifestyle change program: 

1-   Have I made my new fitness/nutrition program and absolute PRIORITY in my life?

This is where you need to sit in solitude and really search you soul…sounding cheesy?  This is an absolute necessity!  This is a time for you to dig deep within yourself and discover your readiness to make a lifelong change.  If you find that you are hesitant, doubtful, fearful, or indifferent to making this change then you need to stop and re-evaluate your priorities.  If you find that you are indeed able to make time to exercise on a daily basis then go for it and never look back.  The bottom line here is that you absolutely cannot start a new lifestyle while sitting on the fence.  If work/life is too busy and too important for this change then back off for a while and wait until you are in the doctor’s office dealing with Diabetes…you will then understand that this truly is a priority not just a luxury to be enjoyed at your convenience.

2- Take an inventory of your EXCUSES and then throw them out the window

This is a great exercise that is imperative to do before starting your program.  While still in the same solitude of soul searching I want you to physically write down ALL of the excuses that you have that stand in the way of you accomplishing your goals!  Each and every last one of them!  I don’t care if you think they are “valid” or not, write them all down.  I am not saying that you are not busy…please do not misunderstand.  What I am saying is that all of these excuses are just mis managed priorities.  Nobody is telling you to quit your job or abandon your family…quite the contrary, read on.

3.  Re-Prioritize!

Now I want you to write down your Daily schedule.  I understand that it may fluctuate…that is not the point.  I want you to FIND the time that will work best for you to exercise and make that your permanent time if possible.  If your schedule fluctuates you are going to have to make some omissions to make time for exercise.  Not possible you say?  NONSENSE!  I want you to be a grown up here and MAKE EXERCISE A PRIORITY!  Stop fooling yourself with every excuse that you find yourself making. Do you see what I am saying here?  All of those excuses may be important but if they are more important than exercise then what you are telling me exercise is not important and I cannot buy that one.  It is time to make a paradigm shift and make exercise a priority.  One last thought…do not skimp on writing this one down!  Physically writing it down into your planner will give you the psychological benefit of knowing that you are indeed making it a priority!  Write out your dailey and weekly schedule with exercise included. Now I want you to RESPECT it!  I don’t care how busy you are, when it comes time for your exercise time it is time to put those important things aside temporarily and fulfill your obligation period…no excuses…just do it.   

4. Commit and Burn your Bridge

A fabled general was once said to take his army across the sea to fight a battle of enormous importance.  As he reached the shore, he gathered his troops rallied them and lit the ship on fire.  He continued, “As you can see we have no way of retreat now, we either conquer or perish”.  They won.  Why did they win?  Because they knew they had no other choice.

So how can you burn your proverbial bridge with your new lifestyle?  Here are a few suggestions.

-Inform your family, peers, and friends.  Be specific and tell them when you are starting and what you are doing.  Enlist them as allies and help them help you stay on track.  Make no secrets and make every intention known.  Essentially what you are doing is setting up a convenient accountability system that will make it very hard to fail.

-Set SMART Goals:  The S stands for Specific.  The M stands for Measurable.  The A stands for Accountability.  The R stands for Realistic, and finally the T stands for a Time Table.  This is a great way to make and keep goals that will help you change for the rest of your life.

-Never let the words “I will start tomorrow” leave your lips:  You have committed and you do not have the luxury of turning back now!  If you slip a day, pick yourself up…you are not off the hook, but rather recommitting to the goals that you have written down.

5. Adopt a mindset of Permananency! 

Even though I just advocated SMART goals that call for a time table, your overall goal and focus needs to be set on changing your lifestyle permanently!  If you are getting ready for a cruise great…that is great motivation but what I am asking you to do is adopt a mindset that transcends time limits.  This is the way you are going to be living for the rest of your life!  Five, ten, twenty five years from now you will still be living this healthy lifestyle. 

Well there you have it my friends!  I enjoy a quote from Dr. Wayne W. Dyer stating, “Excuses are nothing more than an option out of the life that you would like to live”.  Please do not short change yourself with tired, worn out excuses that will do nothing more than hamper your efforts to succeed long term.  You deserve better.  God speed and good luck!

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